Remember when we were very young, how we would look forward
to his coming home after work? How we would run to him and he would
scoop us into his arms and hold us close? And he always brought a
surprise when he returned after a trip, some little thing. Just
something to show he was thinking about us when we were apart.
Sometimes in a bad mood or just plain cross with our world,
we weren’t eager to run to his arms when he came home, dreading to face the
punishment we had earned. Sometimes he would have to search for us, to make us
face his discipline and forgiveness before we were ready for the hugs we longed
for.
As we became older, that fear morphed into anger at not being allowed to
do what we want. We made excuses and pouted when disciplined. We didn’t yearn
for his company—we blamed his rules for our misery. He was old-fashioned, out of date. We might grudgingly acknowledge
shame at our misstep. Perhaps not until we became parents did we fully
appreciate the love behind the discipline, the reasons behind “Because I said
so”.
But some of us learned early in life not to trust our imperfect father
and yearned for the relationship we saw in other families. We may have found
impatience or indifference instead of love. Avoiding his homecoming became
routine; we would grow bitter. Life isn’t fair.
God gave us human families so we could see a picture, though dimly,
of the relationship He seeks with each of us. For those of us without parents able to provide this image of love, God planted the yearning for perfect love
in our hearts for that something missing that only our Heavenly Father can freely
give. A love we can trust to provide discipline and guidance if we look beyond
the momentary discomfort with which He draws our attention to Him.
My Father’s hands, so big and strong
FATHER’S HANDS
My Father’s hands, so big and strong
Lift me up when things go wrong;
When His hands hold me near,
I know there is naught to fear;
His hands so gently, without wrath,
Nudge me firmly back onto His path;
My Father’s hands hold me tight
And keep me safe throughout the
night.
For it is God who works in you both to will and
to do for His good pleasure. Philippians 2:13
to do for His good pleasure. Philippians 2:13